life is short, love is a luxury.

i have enjoyed doglove, catlove, kidlove and the love of a good man. the last is what is lacking in my life and i miss it. past mid-century, more than half of my life past, i want someone in my life as an ongoing presence. needn’t be daily or live-in, but ongoing. someone to look forward to and back on.

this space will present thoughts and wonderings on love and life.

lesson #1 if you didn’t already know, women process by talking. we are not locked in to the positions we present as we speak. they are constantly subject to revision. let us talk and eventually we will get to a tentative conclusion, still subject to change.