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what’s next?

27 Tuesday Mar 2012

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TUJOnLOQVTY&feature=related it might be you stephen bishophttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UnPMoAb4y8U&feature=related

we both agree that you are clueless when it comes to love and relationships            never had a best relationship, it’s not too soon to start

you have to believe that you are lovable for starters

it’s not about how darkly tanned you are or how black her hair is, things change black hair goes gray, tans fade, those are just the surfaces

deep inside there is how she makes you feel, doubled                                                      it’s both how she makes you feel about her and how she makes you feel about yourself

it’s how she loves you, with her mind and her heart and her body                                how you want to give as good as you get with your mind and heart and your body

you have to like each other to sustain and love each other, try it, i can help  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tBBw1MEOMWI

comfort

16 Sunday Oct 2011

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me thinks that comfort and contentment have become my target in partnering. a man i can be myself with and he likewise. acceptance, embracing similarities and differences. i think part of what makes up attraction is the balance of traits the other person has that we wish we had ourselves, as if sleeping next to a great bridge player one would become one through osmosis. maybe over time we do moderate each other and there is some seepage through the membrane. i envied my husband’s competence, he seemed confident and secure that he could do a great many things well and he did. i was more tentative at that stage in my life, less so now, not completely over it, but better. now i can better gauge what i’m good at and what i’m not. i would like someone to value my strengths and accept my weaknesses, maybe even be supportive of both.

i have been well loved and loved well and i want it again.